Feb. 23, 2026

Seeing People Through Jesus' Eyes

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Seeing People Through Jesus' Eyes
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Barry’s guest Karl Hargestam shares a powerful story of loving someone without judgment. When we see people the way Jesus does, we uncover their value, purpose, and potential. Be encouraged to look past appearances, embrace God’s grace, and hear how simple love can change lives.

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(00:00) A Radical Salvation Story
(03:20) Saved by Grace, Later Burdened by Religion
(05:14) The Simplicity and Power of the Gospel

00:00 - A Radical Salvation Story

03:20:00 - Saved by Grace, Later Burdened by Religion

05:14:00 - The Simplicity and Power of the Gospel

WEBVTT100:00:00.260 --> 00:00:05.460So he's telling me this story, he was wasted, drunk, high, and he walked by200:00:05.460 --> 00:00:06.700into this church.300:00:07.140 --> 00:00:10.840In fact, he was sitting with someone in the bar, I think I remember, and in400:00:10.840 --> 00:00:15.320this bar someone challenged him and says, if you just go with me, he said, I'm500:00:15.320 --> 00:00:18.260not worthy, if you just go with me, I guarantee you that Jesus will save you.600:00:18.320 --> 00:00:23.080So he goes in to this church, he follows this guy from this bar, and he says,700:00:23.160 --> 00:00:25.720both high and drunk, and gets radically saved.800:00:26.460 --> 00:00:30.780Welcome to the Ignite with Barry Meguiar podcast, where Barry's book and900:00:30.780 --> 00:00:35.180passion for spreading God's love are guaranteed to ignite your life.1000:00:35.620 --> 00:00:39.360Now listen in and prepare to have your life ignited.1100:00:41.340 --> 00:00:43.420Karl, it's always fun hanging out with you, brother.1200:00:43.720 --> 00:00:44.300It really is.1300:00:44.540 --> 00:00:45.820You always have all these stories.1400:00:46.000 --> 00:00:47.540You have more energy than anybody I know.1500:00:48.600 --> 00:00:52.800And always, always, always focus on the individual, the people that are around1600:00:52.800 --> 00:00:54.700you, where they're standing with God.1700:00:55.700 --> 00:00:57.780I think you don't know where people are.1800:00:58.280 --> 00:01:03.760We had this one, this is to me an interesting story, but we were sitting, in1900:01:03.760 --> 00:01:06.760fact, I was flying with Jennifer, we were going for some meeting, I don't2000:01:06.760 --> 00:01:09.100remember, but we were sitting on this smaller plane.2100:01:10.200 --> 00:01:13.060And on the way there, I'm sitting next to a guy, and you know, we used to have2200:01:13.060 --> 00:01:13.940a friendly conversation.2300:01:14.160 --> 00:01:18.140It's just, you know, what we're doing, and you always get into a little bit on2400:01:18.140 --> 00:01:18.500the Lord.2500:01:18.580 --> 00:01:22.920And he's telling me, you know, he's sitting with a friend, and he kind of got2600:01:22.920 --> 00:01:28.420into a little bit of a holiness group, but he's like, we're going back to bury2700:01:28.420 --> 00:01:32.020some issues in his life that, you know, he couldn't serve the Lord, he didn't2800:01:32.020 --> 00:01:33.320feel worthy to be saved anymore.2900:01:33.440 --> 00:01:35.780I mean, he unloaded on the most crazy thing.3000:01:36.920 --> 00:01:38.140Why do you think he did that?3100:01:38.760 --> 00:01:41.620Well, I mean, I think that that's what religion is doing to people, and I, and3200:01:41.620 --> 00:01:42.220so we're...3300:01:42.220 --> 00:01:44.240Why did he feel safe in doing that with you?3400:01:46.240 --> 00:01:48.920I mean, we just loved on him, we talked about a little bit what we're doing,3500:01:49.000 --> 00:01:50.220and it was just a friendly conversation.3600:01:50.220 --> 00:01:54.140But for some reason, in fact, he and his friend, I think, tried to talk him out3700:01:54.140 --> 00:01:56.220of it, talking to me.3800:01:56.340 --> 00:02:00.300I'm sorry, but he's not going around telling that with everybody he's with,3900:02:00.380 --> 00:02:00.620okay?4000:02:00.660 --> 00:02:00.780No, no.4100:02:00.800 --> 00:02:04.340But he told it to you, and you touched on it lightly, but I don't want to go4200:02:04.340 --> 00:02:05.220past it too fast.4300:02:05.820 --> 00:02:11.400He sensed your love, he sensed that you cared for him, he sensed there was4400:02:11.400 --> 00:02:12.160something...4500:02:12.660 --> 00:02:16.560Somehow you connected with him in a way that other people have not been4600:02:16.560 --> 00:02:17.260connected with him.4700:02:18.680 --> 00:02:22.160In fact, there maybe was a couple of questions that I think we miss in most4800:02:22.160 --> 00:02:23.340interaction with most people.4900:02:24.000 --> 00:02:28.100Because God obviously has created all in his image, and sees value in them, and5000:02:28.100 --> 00:02:33.980a lot of times we, I think, we see past God's greatness in whatever that person5100:02:33.980 --> 00:02:34.160is.5200:02:34.220 --> 00:02:37.100They might not live it, but it's still there, right?5300:02:37.920 --> 00:02:41.840So the big question often, I think, is for me, how is Jesus seeing this person?5400:02:42.120 --> 00:02:46.560What potential is he seeing in this person, or this lady, or this person?5500:02:46.560 --> 00:02:48.040How does God see this person?5600:02:48.100 --> 00:02:53.520Knowing that God loves this person as much as he loves you, as much as anybody,5700:02:53.640 --> 00:02:54.440he loves this person.5800:02:54.760 --> 00:02:59.040I don't see him as wholesome, I don't see him as loving, but God loves him.5900:02:59.060 --> 00:03:01.040He sees a destiny, purpose, he sees some greatness.6000:03:01.040 --> 00:03:02.540Exactly, God sees all that.6100:03:03.040 --> 00:03:06.760And when we tap into that, that's a big point, Karl, that's a big point.6200:03:07.560 --> 00:03:09.780See people, you've got to get past the appearance.6300:03:10.440 --> 00:03:14.720Because a whole lot of people are not what they appear to be, that's a screen.6400:03:14.720 --> 00:03:17.840And then you have all this religious system, so I asked him a couple of6500:03:17.840 --> 00:03:19.860questions, because it was all kind of defeated, right?6600:03:20.320 --> 00:03:22.720He was this guy, and he had talked about his whole background, he had been in6700:03:22.720 --> 00:03:24.040rock and roll, he had all kinds of things.6800:03:24.440 --> 00:03:27.960So he's going back to Phoenix on this plane, and he's going back to do some6900:03:27.960 --> 00:03:31.220bearing of whatever he thought was bad in his life.7000:03:32.220 --> 00:03:35.280But he told me his testimony, I got him to kind of share what happened.7100:03:35.840 --> 00:03:40.700So he's telling me this story, he was wasted, drunk, high, and he walked by7200:03:40.700 --> 00:03:41.900into this church.7300:03:42.280 --> 00:03:47.080In fact, he was sitting with someone in the bar, and in this bar, someone7400:03:47.080 --> 00:03:51.140challenged him and says, if you just go with me, he said, I'm not worthy, if7500:03:51.140 --> 00:03:53.520you just go with me, I guarantee you that Jesus will save you.7600:03:53.560 --> 00:03:58.560So he goes in to this church, he follows this guy from this bar, he says both7700:03:58.560 --> 00:04:01.540high and drunk, and gets radically saved, right?7800:04:02.020 --> 00:04:03.140This happened earlier in his life.7900:04:03.160 --> 00:04:04.240This happened earlier in his life.8000:04:04.380 --> 00:04:08.420So then he ends up being cleaned up, he comes out of kind of a bad lifestyle,8100:04:08.920 --> 00:04:14.560marries this beautiful lady, I think, in a kind of church setting, and get in a8200:04:14.560 --> 00:04:18.920kind of religious holiness kind of setting that turns him into a life where8300:04:18.920 --> 00:04:20.640nothing you do anymore is good enough.8400:04:21.320 --> 00:04:25.720So now, 15 years later, whatever that is, 13 years later, he's going to bury8500:04:25.720 --> 00:04:26.600someone's past life.8600:04:26.620 --> 00:04:31.600So I'm talking to him, and I'm asking, well, why would Jesus see you're worthy8700:04:31.600 --> 00:04:33.840then, but not now?8800:04:34.440 --> 00:04:41.620So he had been close to God, but now he's not close to God, and he's feeling8900:04:41.620 --> 00:04:42.640unworthy now.9000:04:42.860 --> 00:04:44.160And you're saying, why?9100:04:44.880 --> 00:04:45.940God doesn't change.9200:04:46.880 --> 00:04:48.760In fact, he's so unworthy then, right?9300:04:48.920 --> 00:04:52.160He saw some incredible potential, and now you come to a place where you totally9400:04:52.160 --> 00:04:55.720disqualify everything you are, so you think now he doesn't...9500:04:55.720 --> 00:04:59.260Now when you're much better, you're married, you have kids, you're doing great,9600:04:59.460 --> 00:05:00.320it's the gospel of grace.9700:05:00.320 --> 00:05:05.820So when we share faith, in fact, even he become embarrassingly like, well, you9800:05:05.820 --> 00:05:08.340know, he started crying and, you know, wanted me to pray with him.9900:05:08.460 --> 00:05:10.540So it become embarrassing for Jennifer, I remember a little bit.10000:05:11.740 --> 00:05:17.900But it's a beautiful moment where I think this is part of the problem when we10100:05:17.900 --> 00:05:18.680speak to people.10200:05:19.020 --> 00:05:23.560If you just love people and try to see the potential that Jesus sees in people,10300:05:23.940 --> 00:05:28.720and not add a bunch of things that disqualifies people, I think the gospel is10400:05:28.720 --> 00:05:29.840so attractive.10500:05:30.400 --> 00:05:34.980If we can just get out of the way and share how incredible God's grace is for10600:05:34.980 --> 00:05:35.660people's It's good news.10700:05:35.720 --> 00:05:36.440It is good news.10800:05:36.480 --> 00:05:37.620It's the love of God.10900:05:37.660 --> 00:05:38.100That's right.11000:05:38.240 --> 00:05:41.960Why are we so reluctant to say, God loves you?11100:05:42.300 --> 00:05:43.860So we see everything differently, right?11200:05:44.040 --> 00:05:49.680I mean, the world, most Christians see it with all this confusion, and in fact,11300:05:49.720 --> 00:05:50.540it's just so simple.11400:05:50.760 --> 00:05:51.180It is.11500:05:51.380 --> 00:05:52.240It is incredible.11600:05:52.240 --> 00:05:53.100The love of God.11700:05:53.280 --> 00:05:53.880The love of Jesus.11800:05:54.180 --> 00:05:54.280Yeah.11900:05:54.480 --> 00:05:55.820No, it's amazing.12000:05:56.080 --> 00:05:57.360Well, you do that so well, Karl.12100:05:58.280 --> 00:05:59.080You really do.12200:06:00.620 --> 00:06:03.420I get to grab a moment with you here, right, Craig?12300:06:03.640 --> 00:06:04.740Absolutely, my privilege.12400:06:04.740 --> 00:06:05.980I have a special family here.12500:06:06.020 --> 00:06:06.700Thank you so much.12600:06:07.020 --> 00:06:09.640If you enjoyed today's episode, let us know.12700:06:10.000 --> 00:06:14.000And don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review to help us reach more12800:06:14.000 --> 00:06:14.340listeners.12900:06:15.000 --> 00:06:17.900Remember, sharing your faith ignites your faith.13000:06:18.460 --> 00:06:21.580See you next time on the Ignite with Barry Meguiar podcast.13100:06:23.100 --> 00:06:23.280Bye.13200:06:23.300 --> 00:06:23.400Bye.13300:06:23.420 --> 00:06:23.520Bye.